Giving A Great “Bride’s Speech”

In the past, brides were not expected to make a speech at their own wedding. However, modern day brides are increasingly adopting this new custom. Many brides want to officially thank their families, friends and other guests for coming to celebrate their momentous occasion. In addition, they want to express their emotions at this important juncture.

The following are some useful tips on making a Great Bride’s Speech

Where the Bride’s Speech Fits In

In most cases, the bride’s speech should come shortly after the groom’s and just before the cutting of the cake.

Start with Expressing Your Gratitude

A nice way to start your speech is by expressing your personal thanks to all those in attendance. Some of the people you ought to address include:

• All those who made the day and celebration possible. You can even express your gratitude to all those who had a hand in making you look so beautiful for the celebration. In addition, make sure you thank all the guests for their kind gifts.
• All the guests who traveled a long distance to make it to the event. If they aren’t many, you can mention them by name and where they are from.
• All those people who couldn’t be with you on your big day due to unavoidable circumstances. For instance, if there is some sort of silver lining like one of them had a baby, make sure you mention it.
• Make sure to thank individual guests who have played a vital role throughout the entire process. They could have helped with a particular service, or made some significant contribution. For instance, family members and friends who have managed to endure your constant complaints:)
• Thank your parents for their vital role in the wedding and the support, love and encouragement they have provided throughout your life.
• Thank your husband’s parents for welcoming you into their family and assure them that you will take care of their son.



Reminisce a bit

Feel free to slip in a humorous related anecdote like the first impression you got when you two first met. Just make sure that you steer clear of anything that may embarrass him too much.



Direct your attention towards him

Make sure that you express just how much you love you husband, and how happy he has made you. Also include some of the positive impacts he has made in your life. You can even use a poem or song to express your emotions.



End with a toast

Depending on what emotions you may be feeling, this toast can either be dedicated to your husband, the future, your guests, or to love and abundant happiness.